Button color hilite

[ncouch]

Okay, I have checked the "hiliteColor" command, but it doesn't change the
hilite color of the button I click on.  The button type I am trying to
change is the one right beneath the hand icon in the upper left of the main
pallet.  No matter what I try it stays the same blue color.

Any ideas.  Can this button hilite color be changed in the first place.  I
found some doco that says that some buttons hilite color can't be changed.

TIA

Nate