Replacing the Menu-bar

[Bridger Maxwell]

Hey,  I am making a stack which I would like to have the
sunken menu-bar look, like in iTunes.  I have made the graphic, but of
course when I set the shape of the stack the menu-bar disappears.  With the
menu-bar, the exit, minimize, and maximize button disappear.  I know I could
fashion my own, but I am afraid that if I do it will not match the rest of
the interface.  Is there any way to put these back on, in any place I want?
 I only need this for the OS X version of my app.


  Thank You,
    Bridger Maxwell
    www.FieryFerret.com