Option Menu Question

[Pete]

I often see menus on web pages that display an instruction as their default
choice, something like "Select a color" for example. It's often greyed out
and usually disappears when the user clicks on the menu.  I think I can
figure out how to make it disappear but is there a way to have it be greyed
out if the other menu choices are not?

Thanks,


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Pete
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